All right, I’ll say it. After several months my guy stops shaving before bed. He wears any old crap t-shirt and baggy jeans more often, chews with his mouth open while eating and watching You Tube videos at dinner, never hesitates to tell me how to do something better — and more.

The obvious conclusion is that he stops trying. Here’s a tip I heard in a Ted Talk once. Orgasm begins after the last gasp. In other words, anything after that is all foreplay.