Oh yes! Not a proper woman, not one of the guys, not a category they can win over easily with tomfoolery. Leadership is easier, but who’d follow a woman, and she must be a ball-buster to qualify for cooperation — and so, we are ripe for teasing, othering. And the women, they think I am out to get their guy, unless, until they realize that I am not.

So alas, I am just weird.